colector: Re: [JournalWriting] Let's See who is reading their messages

----- Original Message ----
From: JoAnne Holliday <kittensmakemesmile@yahoo.com>
To: z christian <beaconlightsshiningfellowship@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Monday, March 10, 2008 6:28:48 PM
Subject: [JournalWriting] Let's See who is reading their messages

Are you a person like this?

1. No matter what some people post you consider it an improper post? And consider it has nothing to do with the group you are in that receives the post?

I honestly do believe everyone has an opinion, and a right to that opinion, and to share it if they feel they should, that is what makes us all different from eachother and unique. If I disagree or agree that is my choice also, but each and everyone should have their opinions wheather I believe it to be part of a group conversation or not...I can always not read the email or just disregard...

2. Sometimes your posts hurt peoples feelings when you are just showing support?

It really would bother me if I should unknowingly hurt someone with my opinions...I have had occassions when I meant one thing and another was thought of it...I do try to explain myself as this is the best thing in my opinion to do and to show what it was that I was trying to communicate with that person.

3. You listen to what negative things a person says about another person without checking with the 2nd party involved?

I do believe that we should always listen to both sides of a story...Or better yet try not to get involved in the negativity of the situation...I try to avoid all types of negativity as it affects me in many ways, and brings me down...But to be honest one should take the time to make sure of anything before making any presumptions. Of course these are just my opinions...

All this is considered by some as the person having a closed mind, and that they do nothing wrong.

I am sorry if this upsets some but it happens more than you know, the message will most likely get mr kicked out of some groups, but I have to say it, because it has happened to me so many times that I am very upset about this.

JoAnne, I am very sorry that you are in a situation that has affected you so, hopefully everyone can openly talk, or email eachother on the situation, and it will be better...

Vicky