colector: [JournalWriting] Re: Thank you Katiya!

--- In JournalWriting@yahoogroups.com, "Lori L. Clark" <psychic@...>
wrote:
lori

Really so Happy for you!!! I read this book called "The Secret" and
it clearly states that when you want anything to manifest in your
life, all you need is to clearly state what you want and then send it
out into the universe.

Your life is one beautiful example of that. Enjoy the lovely
giddiness girl. Nothing can beat the high one experiences with newly
found romance.

Cheers
Sharmila

> I am reminded of a book I read once called "Write it Down, Make it
Happen." ... It works! :)
>
> I got divorced in late 2004. I had all but given up on finding
someone new. I'm not a social butterfly. I go to the store, I go to
the bookstore. I go to work. I don't go out to bars, and frankly
after getting rid of husband #2 - the alcoholic, seeking a new
companion at a bar was the last thing on my mind. :)
>
> In the spring of 2005, I became online friends with a man who lived
4.5 hours south of where I was living. We were best friends, but it
never went any farther than friendship. During the course of our
relationship, my job began to go south. I literally hated going to
work. :( He kept me sane through that ordeal and when he
suggested, "Why don't you look down here for something..." I
thought "why not?!"
>
> In November 2006, I applied for a job down in his neck of the
woods. In late December, I went for an interview. January 3rd, 2007
they called to hire me. The following weekend, I drove back down,
located a place to live - which incidentally, I wrote all my
wants/needs down for that place and found it immediately. I started
my new job on January 29, 2007. I have never looked back and working
for a company that has been listed on Forbes Top 100 Places to Work
in America for many years in a row has been truly a blessing to me.
>
> Then, after I'd been down here for a few months, I decided I wanted
to get into shape and get off that extra 30 pounds of comfort. I've
got almost all of it off, and am at a plateau right now wanting to
lose another 8 pounds or so... but I'm not gaining, so that's a good
thing. :)
>
> Ok, so you can see the picture. I've got my job which I love. I've
got my health. I've got my body back, or almost back. I had blinders
on in the love department, because I secretly (or not so secretly)
hoped that my friend would be my life companion. He suffers from
debilitating depression and sinks in and out of it randomly. He would
be "fine" one day and then he would just disappear. All of his
friends and family told me not to take it personally, that's just how
he was. :( The song, "I only have eyes for you..." was how I was with
him. We last spoke a couple days after his birthday on January 10. He
told me he was so sad. He was getting better, though. He told me that
it wasn't fair for me to wait around for him while he went through
these episodes. I guess somewhere about that time, I decided that I
didn't think it was fair, either. Especially since he refused to do
anything about his depression, except ride out the rough patches. :(
He wouldn't go get counseling, he wouldn't take medication... that
cost money. Never mind that he had plenty. (Darn Capricorns...).
>
> I'm 46 years old. I've been married twice. I turn 47 this
Wednesday. I'm tired of being alone. I live in this wonderful new
city. I was born and raised in southeastern Iowa. I grew up in a
town of about 2000 people. Living here in Saint Peters, MO has been a
blessing to me. I just wanted someone to share it with.
>
> It's uncanny how the universe works... I no sooner decided that I
was probably never going to end up with the Capricorn. That I'd
likely be spending my time alone and I'd better get used to it....
when I got to chatting with one of the girls at work. I told her that
there were a few attractive men there, but most of them were too
young for me or married. I said that there were probably 3. Of
course, she was curious... I told her that if she guessed, I'd tell
her, but since they were married, it was really pretty pointless to
even mention anything.
>
> She guessed them all but 1. Finally a couple of days later, I told
her that if it would narrow it down any, the 3rd person wasn't there
that day. Hahaha she looked at the attendance list and got a puzzled
look on her face. "Jeff?" she asked. I told her yes. Then she
informed me, "I didn't guess him, because he's NOT married." With the
help of another male friend we've gone from having no clue that the
other was interested to now emailing each other repeatedly throughout
the day. He is interested in me, he's good looking, he's not married.
(Also, been married twice.) And.... he was right there, under my nose
the whole time. I only needed to open up my eyes. :)
>
> Our hours at work were a bit different. I work 4 Ten hour days.
With a rotating day off during the week. I go in at 9 and get off at
8. He goes in at 7 and gets off at 4. Again, the universe seems to
have helped that along, too. He got a promotion on Friday, his hours
are now 9 to 6. :)
>
> We'll see what things happen now that we know we're both interested
in the other. He told me he was shocked that I like him and that he
is a bit apprehensive about dating someone at work but may be able to
get over that. :) I think he will.
>
> I know this is more than you wanted to know. But for the first time
in like forever, I'm as giddy as a school girl.
>
> This is my sharing... :)
>
> Lori
> Nobody can go back and start a new beginning,
> but anyone can start today and make a new ending!
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Katiya
> To: JournalWriting@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Monday, February 25, 2008 12:48 PM
> Subject: [JournalWriting] I also congratulate you Lori
>
>
> on the prospect of a new romance!!!
>
> I'll have to say that when you write down your goals that you want
> manifested in your life positive things start to happen. I think a
> dose of patience helps also. I find that impatience breeds mistakes
a
> good majority of the time. So I try to live by the saying "All in
due
> time." I sometimes watch Joel Osteen when he comes on and he did
this
> as a subject last week. (Manifesting and writing down what you want
> to have come into your life!) No jokes please! I like him because
he
> doesn't come across as ultra-religious and a fire breathing
christian
> to me and honestly minus the few scriptures he comes up with he's
> given me food for thought a lot of times on my journey of life.
>
> Basically when I found my fiance I wasn't looking for a fellow. I
was
> polite and kind to Aidan but I let him know I wasn't really into
> having a relationship at that point in my life. He said aren't you
> open to a new experience? In my mind at that point I didn't totally
> get what he was saying but I get it now. He said the same thing
when
> he asked me to marry him. (I guess he figured that same line of
> thinking would work!) Before I involved myself with Aidan I was
> single for quite a long time after I divorced my ex and was in a
> naughty relationship for awhile so I was ultra cautious.
>
> Anyhow, yes I think writing down goals helps manifest the things
you
> want to come into your life. Hopefully things work out well for you.
>
> Kat
>
> Lori L. Clark" <psychic@> wrote:
> I'm here and I'm excited recently with the prospects of a new
romance
> on the fringes.... It's been awhile since I've had one of those. LOL
> Awhile back I did a journal writing prompt of "The things the
> psychic told me." Then I wrote down everything that I wanted to
> manifest into my life for 2008. I'll share that writing with you,
if
> you'd like... some of the things are happening already.
>